Stepmonster - A Review of Wednesday Martin's Realistic View of Step-Parenting

With the divorce rates so high, some day becoming a step-parent is not unlikely anymore. Wednesday Martin presents in her book, STEPMONSTER, a realistic and practical view of what being a step-parent is like not only from the adult's side, but also from how the child views this new parent.Do not think if you aren't in this situation in your family that you want benefit from this book--you will! First of all, it is an easy read with so much research it is hard for me to understand how Martin could fit it all in one book. No matter what your situation is, you will find yourself agreeing at times, while at other times, you will not. However, by the time you finish STEPMONSTER, you will at least have gotten some perspective and understanding on how everyone feels in these situations and blended families.I believe this is a valuable resource for everyone who deals with step-parenting or even having friends who are step-parents. It is so easy to try and use your way of solving thin
gs when a problem exists, but you have no idea what all the dynamics are unless YOU are in that family. Remember to walk in THEIR shoes!So often the stepmother hears those four hated words "You're not my mother!" and cringes and pulls back. Often in order to NOT hear those words the stepmother will try too hard to be accepted; to be patient and caring and hope that if she tries really hard that all of a sudden, it will all be OK. Add to that the possibility that this might be this woman's first experience raising children and a whole new set of dynamics arises.What you find in this book is a plan. A way to take things step by step, day by day, but cut herself some serious slack. Just to survive and do the best you can and not load yourself down with guilt every minute, and you will have succeeded. I truly believe that parents as well as step-parents can gain a whole new outlook on their parenting skills and family dynamics through Wednesday Martin's excellent book!

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